3.23.2016

hard time dealing with the boss

Why do some of the boss are having a hard time accepting the fact that they commit errors too? Will that really hurts their ego or they are just trying to show that they are talented enough to commit that error?

We know it is really hard to correct or even comments about the work of the person who got a higher position than us. Or even to those persons who are senior in service  in an organization.  It feels like who are you to questions on the things that they used to do for such a long time.

We all know that sometimes, some boss tend to sign the papers without reading or understanding what they are signing. They gave  trust and confidence to the staff doing the paperworks for them. Without knowing that sometimes things are no longer right.

Some of us are  actually afraid to correct or questions things even if we know that we are  in the right position for we might offend people. Even if our intention is good it might be misinterpreted by the person concerned. And so we just let things passed and let the higher in authority find it and be the one to correct it.

But there will come to the point when you are required to correct them because your attention is called by higher authority to do it specially if material errors was previously done.  Because even simple addition and deduction were not properly done.

What should you do? How are you going to say it knowing that this particular boss got an image of not accepting correction from a person who is lower in position?  

3.15.2016

be grateful

We know that everyone of us has our own daily struggle in life. So instead of complaining about what we are going through, why not try to focus on the good things that we have. Spreading the negative vibes will only stress us and the people around us.

The best thing that we should do is to look at all the blessings that we have. Look things the positive way. Be grateful of all the blessings that we have no matter how small or big it is.  I know it is easier to say it than to do it but we all know that we really can as long as we are positive about it.

For example, why do we need to complain about our low salary? Let's try to be grateful because we have a job that gives us income to support our family. It may not be enough to pay all our bills but compare to other people who really don't have source of income then we can say that we are indeed lucky. Now, what we can do is to try to lessen our expenses. Do not expend beyond your means.
Another one, we are always late because of the traffic. Then, why blame the traffic? Try to wake up early and go to work early then that will save you from being late. Because other people can do it then you can also do it. That will also save you from all the stress and hassle of finding the rides especially if you are using the public transportation.

Lastly, why complain about the electric bill, the water bill and all the  bills that we have that increases almost monthly. Why not be grateful that you have the luxury to enjoy those services we are paying. Just think for a while for those people who still dont have an electiricity or a good source of water for their daily needs.

Let's be positive in dealing with everything in life. Remember what Joel Osteen said, " Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you're going to live you life."

3.12.2016

he just inspired me

It's been a while since I tried to write anything. Aside from the vey busy schedule I don't feel  writing down my thought. I got very lazy. And I don't have any inspiration to write.

But now, I feel like I want to write. It all started when my brother texted me and asked me to write the valedictory address for my nephew. At first, I felt like I can't do it. I said I don't know much about the topic because it ' s about the K to 12 program.  Honestly speaking, I got little knowledge about this program.

Then, I realized that I need to try. Internet is there to help me for the information needed anyway.
Few hours of nosebleed and headache, I did it. And so far, I was happy with the result. I immediately sent it to my brother and he was contented with it too.

Thank you brother for allowing me to do it and for the trust and confidence that you have in me. You inspired me to write again. I just hope that the eagerness in me will not leave me soon.

How about you, who inspired you to do anything lately? Care to share? 

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